In my last blog, I wrote about “online” presence and how it can impact your professional life. ePresence – Part 2 is all about your “telephone” presence! There are two considerations when talking about telephone presence:
Etiquette and Perception
Etiquette
Telephone etiquette is nothing more than common courtesy, but let’s review what that means. Standard procedure when calling someone who is not expecting your call is to ask them if this is a good time. If you had predetermined a time for the call, this isn’t necessary. Never put someone on speaker phone unless you have asked them if it’s okay. Concentrate on one thing at a time – don’t multi-task when speaking on the phone. Do NOT eat while on the phone – the sound of chewing is magnified! When using your cell phone, be sure you are in a place with very little background noise – again, amplification can present a less-than-professional image.
Perception
Now, for your telephone presence! When I was in a technical support job, I rarely met my clients face to face. All I knew of them was how they sounded over the phone and all they knew of me was the same. When I met one of my clients face to face, he said that I sounded much older over the phone! As I was trying to find a compliment in that statement, I asked what he meant. He said that no matter what he threw at me, I didn’t seem to panic or freak out! It seems that I came across that all issues could be resolved! Sort of a “been there/done that” persona. In a technical support role, that was a good thing! However, sounding “older” over the phone may not always work well for you. There are ways you can present a positive, energetic perception on each and every phone call. The things to be aware of in creating your telephone image are:
Tone
Clarity /Volume
Energy
Your tone of voice is very important! You can change the meaning of a statement by changing the tone of your voice. If your tone is sullen or dire, the person on the other end of the call is waiting to hear the bad news that you must be delivering! The best example of a good tone of voice is when we listen to DJs on the radio particularly in the morning! They sound like they are smiling and happy, even though they have been up since 3a.m.! We can’t see their faces, so we have to depend on the tone of their voice to make us get up and face our day or traffic! So, be very aware that the tone of your voice impacts the message you are trying to send.
Clarity of speech = don’t mumble! Speak clearly and distinctly, or not at all! People do not like to ask you to repeat phrases. If you have noticed that you are asked frequently to repeat questions or statements, it might be because you are not speaking clearly. Take your time and speak distinctly! Also speak loud enough to be heard the first time! You certainly don’t want to yell at the person on the other end of the call, but you want them to hear you. Most of us stay pretty busy, so please do NOT ramble. Get to the point of the call quickly. If you are leaving a voice message, it’s most important that you do not ramble on and on. If it’s not possible to get the information to the person in a one minute message, then ONLY leave a message asking them to call you back! Nothing is more frustrating to a professional than trying to get your phone messages and coming across one in which the person chases rabbits all over the place, only to ask you to call them for clarification!! When leaving a message, leave your name, number and a brief statement about the reason for the call. You don’t need to leave a date and time since most message systems record that information automatically. However, if you have a deadline for getting or giving information to this person, you should leave the date and time of the deadline.
If you pay attention to the first two items (tone and clarity/volume), then energy should happen easily! We expect good news to come to us with excitement and bad news to be delivered with reserve. So, when speaking over the phone, please sound like you are glad to be alive and speaking with this person. When our tone and energy do not match our message, we send confusing messages. If I’m delievering bad news to a person (which I actually do not recommend that you do over the phone), and I have a level of energy and excitement in my voice, they might think that I’m glad to be telling them the bad news. And if I’m delivering great news and have a sour, unenthusiastic tone and energy in my voice, they might not believe what I’m telling them. Or they may think it’s a “good news/bad news” situation and they are waiting to hear the bad news as well!
So, make your tone and energy match your message and speak clearly and with enthusiasm! Your telephone presence will come across as professional every time!
Stay tuned! More professional tips to come!